Classmates

We talk about weekend plans, homework, and the events we buy tickets to. We giggle (while cringing) about the social norms we both find weird. We both casually mention going to church, although we haven’t gone past casual yet. We’ve started waiting for each other.

It can be awkward to remember that we only met two months ago and in another three we could easily lose all contact again. It’s awkward, but I try not to let it scare me. Because I’ve learned that friendships are built in small moments like these.

In these moments, we are two humans, walking side by side for a few steps out of our crazy lives. Making a real connection. I think I’ve been underestimating how powerful this is.

Hanna

To ten-year-old Hanna: The hard work will be worth it.

To thirteen-year-old Hanna: I’m sorry, sweetheart, you don’t know everything yet. 😀

To fourteen-year-old Hanna: These feelings will go away. You will feel sane and happy again, I promise.

To seventeen-year-old Hanna: Don’t be scared. College will be hard, but it will be good. You will learn so much. You will still be you. Don’t be scared.